Kids a word which brings a smile on everyone's face. When a child is born there is a different kind of happiness whether its parents, family members and others. A joyful and blissful memorable day for parents as well as others attachednto them.
Today I am going to write about something on special childrens. Who are they? Why do we call them special childrens? How are they unique and blessed? We will come to this in later parts.
Firstly, i want to introduce an "NGO" named "GHARKUL" the founder Mr Sunil satpute who has founded and worked hard to build this gharkul. There are many people who works and takes care of special childrens from day care to schooling, shaping their thoughts, influencing them to be better and creative, working on their abilities etc moreover from motor skills to gross skills. When i had a conversation with "Bhakti" who is a professional counselor, therapist, educationalist who is a part of gharkul and works there for these kids. I felt that there is a need to spread awareness of this special childrens. As bhakti told me about how these kids face challenges and being left alone for no reason I was touched and surprised how one can not respect a child whether it's normal or abnormal. I only know kids are like angels and how can one be so cruel to mistreat their own kids. Thanks to gharkul for being supportive, caring, humble and loving this kids as their own. I am glad and blessed to be part of this and thanks to bhakti for giving me an opportunity to write about such beautiful kids.
Coming to the point of disabled childrens. These special kids are one who faces psychological disorders like mental retardation, hearing impairments, visually disabled, adhd, psychotic disorders etc. So we call them as special kids because they have their own uniqueness to showcase.
The problem lies here is there is no acceptance from parents, family members and society. They have always been kept aside, no equality, no understanding, no acceptance etc. But the question is, why? Why are we seeing them differently and not as we treat normal kids. They too need affection, love, care, concern and more support.
Understanding is a second factor where we all lack, nowadays we rarely find someone who understands others problems. But these are kids and these kids really need to be understood from their perspective. From family to society one should be ready to understand such kids as they are soft hearted and all they need is your love and understanding, so what's wrong if we try to understand them, talk to them with love show some response to them there is nothing wrong with such kids but there is some thing wrong with us. Still some houses find these kids as burdened and sometimes pressurised to stay with them.
Understanding is a second factor where we all lack, nowadays we rarely find someone who understands others problems. But these are kids and these kids really need to be understood from their perspective. From family to society one should be ready to understand such kids as they are soft hearted and all they need is your love and understanding, so what's wrong if we try to understand them, talk to them with love show some response to them there is nothing wrong with such kids but there is some thing wrong with us. Still some houses find these kids as burdened and sometimes pressurised to stay with them.
Attention plays a role as other two factors are important. Once we get attention from the right person we feel so happy, joyous, loved. I'm not talking about attention for normal kids only but for this special childrens too. One attention can do many things like hopes. These children are like other childrens, they have their own way to express love and happiness. Only thing is one has to be very kind to them, giving their all efforts, love, time as you will see how much they give you in return.
Let's be more responsible, human, humble and instead of neglecting them try to accept, understand, pay attention which can brighten their lives and future a better society to live peacefully. Do not discriminate rather spread love and help them in a way you do for your own kids. We all can help such special childrens to live their lives to fullest.
From parents to family members to schools and lastly society we all need to understand and accept them not leaving them apart or making them feel that they are not part of society. Give your all and they will give their best to you.change your attitudes and thoughts towards them you will feel blessed ever.
Well written De... every child is precious.
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