What is the role of being a woman? Is womens accepted by In-laws?

A beautiful journey of relationships. Let us see a journey of women and how many roles she has to play, follow, and maintain. Just like a drama of life.

As it is rightly said womens are emotionally strong and nonetheless she has been perceived to be like a goddess. Being a woman is not as easy as we think, a lot of stuff to do and many relations to maintain. This journey is so beautiful for one woman as many dreams are bound with her.

As we see the journey from childhood to girl, teenager, adolescent and it goes on changing. She is always doing her duties of whether being a girl, a daughter or later on daughter in law. She is taught to give her best as she always imitates her mother seeing her hard work efforts and making day and night to keep her family united.

She is loved by her mother, father and all family members. The ethics, codes of conduct which are taught by parents are still active in her keeping it in mind. The same girl when get married is tied with many relations firstly wife and secondly, daughter in law the rules made by our society one has to follow them, by whole heartedly accepting those norms as a part of life and nothing new.

A girl who is raised in love, care, kindness, concern and always protected by her parents, may not know how her in laws may treat her. When she leaves her parents house she goes with many questions in mind, prays that she may get the same love and care as once she got from her parents. All are not lucky enough to have an understanding  In laws some girls face mental harassment, violences, tortures and dismay. 

The same In laws who welcomes her happily turns out to be harsh and arrogant. They sometimes differentiate between daughter and daughter in laws. This rigid thinking is the cause of all problems. As daughter in law is outsider but one thing is very clear even if she is outsider she is now a part of your family do not discriminate and differentiate between daughter and daughter in law.

We are living in the modernised society so why do we carry This rigid old thinking of differentiating between instead change your thinking welcome your daughter in law happily treat her rightly, love her and understand her in the same way as you treat your daughters.

Casteism is also one factor in which there are more problematic situations. If a girl/ boy is from another caste/creed. This happens to turn more hatred in the family. She might not get the respect as she deserves. In fact she gets taunts and it's made sure that she gets humiliated. This has caused damage to the mental peace of a lady. Though she tries to tackle the situation, she learns to be strong, polite and let go of the taunts which might cause unnecessary stress for her. 

There are some people who still follow jati and varnas in spite of being educated and lots of awareness. Love is the biggest factor all religions teach us to love one another. If a girl/boy wants to marry each other, allow them to marry and accept them. Lets change our mindset and work on being more of humanness. Stop creating hatred.

Sometimes we don't  know how much words and behaviour can hurt people as it can kill them from within which can create a mess of mental harassment. Due to this many womens have made a wrong decision of giving up. Don't spoil your family.

Instead make an attempt to understand and create a  bonding for each other. Being a woman no one was born a mother in law at first, we all have to go through all stages of relationships. Treat your daughter in law as you treat your daughter.

Be happy and stay united.

Stop mental harassment.

Spread love, Be kind!!!