An unplanned things of life or destiny?

We all meet someone or the other people in our life and that's how it's meant to be and works. We name it as "destiny". 

Unplanned things of life. People whom we meet, know, talk to on a daily basis or long distance friends are part of your life. They all are connected with your life as part of happiness, sorrow, sadness, anger, depression etc. As not all will be good to you some may also try to harm you in a way leaving you behind with pain and scars in your life. 

That's how life is : accept the truth, if you're in grief overcome from that, make up your mind, be strong and move on, many professionals advise to do  so.

All must have experienced these things in their life. Meeting new people, making them part of life. As soon as our bonding with them increases, firstly all we do is share our personal and private talks with them, it's good to share your problems and feelings with others it eases our heavy loaded heart and for time being it helps to surpass that pain but it's all momentary.

Every individual you meet you always learn something different. It's important with whom you share your problems, feelings, emotions not all are genuine and trustworthy who really wants you to overcome those kinds of problems which you are facing or dark times. 

Life is metaphysical beyond everything where you cannot predict what will happen next with you... It's in a way both phenomena and noumena. Phenomena where you can see something wrong is happening with you,but have no control over it and noumena it's like you don't know why it happened because before that problem was neglected by you and now you have been going through that. 

Problems are not permanent in our life one can overcome it with "mindfulness" that means yoga and meditation. Learn to be selfless without depending on others. When you think things are going out of your control, consult a counselor or professionalist who can help you to show your way. Be still, focused and relaxed every bad shall pass by and a new day will come with hope and goodness. Don't let anyone control your mind and life. Surrond yourself with good people who will lift you higher , be in good company always.

Everything is best in its own place!!!

Who are special childrens? How are they unique from others?

Kids a word which brings a smile on everyone's face. When a child is born there is a different kind of happiness whether its parents, family members and others. A joyful and blissful memorable day for parents as well as others attachednto them.

Today I am going to write about something on special childrens. Who are they? Why do we call them special childrens? How are they unique and blessed? We will come to this in later parts.

Firstly, i want to introduce an "NGO" named "GHARKUL" the founder Mr Sunil satpute who has founded and worked hard to build this gharkul. There are many people who works and takes care of special childrens from day care to schooling, shaping their thoughts, influencing them to be better and creative, working on their abilities etc moreover from motor skills to gross skills. When i had a conversation with "Bhakti" who is a professional counselor, therapist, educationalist who is a part of gharkul and works there for these kids. I felt that there is a need to spread awareness of this special childrens. As bhakti told me about how these kids face challenges and being left alone for no reason I was touched and surprised how one can not respect a child whether it's normal or abnormal. I only know kids are like angels and how can one be so cruel to mistreat their own kids. Thanks to gharkul for being supportive, caring, humble and loving this kids as their own. I am glad and blessed to be part of this and thanks to bhakti for giving me an opportunity to write about such beautiful kids.

Coming to the point of disabled childrens. These special kids are one who faces psychological disorders like mental retardation, hearing impairments, visually disabled, adhd, psychotic disorders etc. So we call them as special kids because they have their own uniqueness to showcase. 

The problem lies here is there is no acceptance from parents, family members and society. They have always been kept aside, no equality, no understanding, no acceptance etc. But the question is, why? Why are we seeing them differently and not as we treat normal kids. They too need affection, love, care, concern and more support.

Understanding is a second factor where we all lack, nowadays we rarely find someone who understands others problems. But these are kids and these kids really need to be understood from their perspective. From family to society one should be ready to understand such kids as they are soft hearted and all they need is your love and understanding, so what's wrong if we try to understand them, talk to them with love show some response to them there is nothing wrong with such kids but there is some thing wrong with us. Still some houses find these kids as burdened and sometimes pressurised to stay with them.

Attention plays a role as other two factors are important. Once we get attention from the right person we feel so happy, joyous, loved. I'm not talking about attention for normal kids only but for this special childrens too. One attention can do many things  like hopes. These children are like other childrens, they have their own way to express love and happiness. Only thing is one has to be very kind to them, giving their all efforts, love, time as you will see how much they give you in return. 

Let's be more responsible, human, humble and instead of neglecting them try to accept, understand, pay attention which can brighten their lives and future a better society to live peacefully. Do not discriminate rather spread love and help them in a way you do for your own kids. We all can help such special childrens to live their lives to fullest.

From parents to family members to schools and lastly society we all need to understand and accept them not leaving them apart or making them feel that they are not part of society. Give your all and they will give their best to you.change your attitudes and thoughts towards them you will feel blessed ever.

Each child is important and part of society!!!!

Is being related to problems? How does being relates to human being?

Being implies in-it-self and existence. One of the existential philosopher "Martin Heidegger" simplifies the term 'Being' and makes it easy to relate with this life and our very own existence.

This being tries to show our existence as 'human being' or 'dasein'. That means if i exist so also my everyday problems exist in- it- self. heiddeger tries to simplify this term being as those problems which are so philosophical such as mortality, paradox of living in relationship with other human beings, personhood while being ultimately alone with oneself.

We have to understand our daily problems and concerns as how we deal with them and overcome them. As a human being we all have some sort of problems which are more troubling and causing pain and sometimes to an extent terrible. It's because we don't know how to react and when to react in any circumstances and that causes more terrible issues. 

We keep on asking ourselves why do I suffer this, even if I am trying to do my best. I am not getting that happiness, moreover we are more dependent on others to take us out of our problems.

Some problems like up and downs in marriage, this relationship is left meaningless as there is no proper mutual understanding between two partners and it causes more chaotic issues like everyday fight, abuses, no respect no love just like everything is faded. It happens because we don't want to understand opposite partners approaches and we find it difficult to accept their decisions. There lies a problem where we are not ready to understand other human beings, as the ego always keeps on ruling us.

We make our lives miserable with our problems and so philosopher 'Martin heiddeger' define being in-it- self. Everything is rooted in oneself. Problems occur from one own self and we are responsible for our own very trivial issues.

One has to learn their problems, accept it and move on without repeating it again, life is the biggest lesson one has to deal with it patiently and calmly try to evaluate your problems. Our existence in this world itself tells us we exist so does our problems. 

To overcome this issue of  'being' related problems one can learn yoga as "samkhya" also says about mankind and everyday problems and the ways to deal with those problems. Yoga and meditation helps to deal with our ownself, it makes us more realistic, patient, calm, strong and balanced. It helps us to be more distinct and clear in our thoughts. One gets more into values,learns to respect others as they start doing yoga and meditationn

“Anyone can achieve their fullest potential, who we are might be predetermined, but the path we follow is always of our own choosing"

Everything has a meaning we just need to dive deeper to find the meaning for it!!!