Monday, 31 August 2020

An unplanned things of life or destiny?

We all meet someone or the other people in our life and that's how it's meant to be and works. We name it as "destiny"
Unplanned things of life. People whom we meet, know, talk to on a daily basis or long distance friends are part of your life. They all are connected with your life as part of happiness, sorrow, sadness, anger, depression etc. As not all will be good to you some may also try to harm you in a way leaving you behind with pain and scars in your life. 

That's how life is : accept the truth, if you're in grief overcome from that, make up your mind, be strong and move on, many professionals advise to do  so.
All must have experienced these things in their life. Meeting new people, making them part of life. As soon as our bonding with them increases, firstly all we do is share our personal and private talks with them, it's good to share your problems and feelings with others it eases our heavy loaded heart and for time being it helps to surpass that pain but it's all momentary.

Every individual you meet you always learn something different. It's important with whom you share your problems, feelings, emotions not all are genuine and trustworthy who really wants you to overcome those kinds of problems which you are facing or dark times
Life is metaphysical beyond everything where you cannot predict what will happen next with you... It's in a way both phenomena and noumena. Phenomena where you can see something wrong is happening with you,but have no control over it and noumena it's like you don't know why it happened because before that problem was neglected by you and now you have been going through that. 

Problems are not permanent in our life one can overcome it with "mindfulness" that means yoga and meditation. Learn to be selfless without depending on others. When you think things are going out of your control, consult a counselor or professionalist who can help you to show your way. Be still, focused and relaxed every bad shall pass by and a new day will come with hope and goodness. Don't let anyone control your mind and life. Surrond yourself with good people who will lift you higher , be in good company always.

Everything is best in its own place!!!

4 comments:

  1. A very good topic deyan just today was telling explaining someone the same thing..I would say its we humans for us its unplanned but for god who is above all had already programmed & planned everything for each one of us we all are precious & beloved children to him but the only thing is he is a harsh teacher a real true god just putting us all in such situations the areas of our life we are weak at he sees at us all how we conduct & get rid of such situations facing it bravely proving ourself as his true children for example god chooses the time & the person...we did not choose our parents god choose so will our friends & lifepartner...etc.Every thing is by god words even a tiny ant has its life.His will his words of life we live,we breathe.😇

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  2. Not all problems are solved alone. Some problems need to be discussed. Sharing is 1st step to solve it.

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