The best ever gift we all ever have recieved is "parents" a true blessing from god above. It is rightly said that god cannot be present every where, so he sent parents for us. Blessed is the one who have parents by their side to talk, share, care, love, concern, protect, to listen and enterntain us with our own talks. A big thanks to the parents.
Childhood was the lesson for us to know how one should treat each other. As the best things or say all things we capture is at that very age where we see our parents taking care of us loving, feeding and never letting us fall apart.
The struggle which they go through is, 'I may say is a pure love'. Whatever our fulfillments and requirements we demand or had without hesistations it was served infront of us. Truely said we are the reflection of our parents. We inherit qualities from them and carry forward in our life treating same way as we are taught.
How we treat others is said how ethically one is raised by their parents. Later phase, time changes the journey from childrens to grown ups spontaneously takes places. Our emotions, love, affection, Moods, concern, priorities changes from age to age and through development psychological factors. That very love for parents too changes, our first priority is our ownself then friends and lastly our parents and families.
Time flies by, same parents who were once godly to us becomes pain and stress. Slowly our behaviour and emotions changes towards them. Sometimes these geriatrics face violences and abuses from their own childrens. They might have never thought this tragic will ever happen to them as we never know what will happen next.
Geriatics or gerontology meaning ageing, hearing impairments, loss of eye sights and many more reason as such psychological aspects. Parent's who thought at their old age childrens will take care of them and will love them as they did when they were kids but this turns to be only a dream. Old age, weakness, problems due to ageing has become the reason for their childrens to start abuse and violence on their own parent as a burden on them.
They feel this is a curse which has caused them to suffer. May be due to loads of work, pressurized situations, wages, stress they could not handle their own lives which makes them turn arrogant, heartless violent towards their parents. Raising hands, hitting them has become more common. According to surveys old agers or geriatrics violences and abuses are increasing whether it's a male or female both suffer the same. Childrens are not ready to take responsibilties of their parents and leave them to die.
Sometimes it's so cruel to hear and see how can a person become emotionless. They decide to throw their parents out of their houses these poor old people find no shelter. Sometimes they take shelter in old age homes and many might have lost their lives seeing their own children treating them badly.
Note: Incase if you feel or go through such thinking. please consult a geriatric counselors who will help you to deal with all types of problems and to recognize your parents problems. which will build your relationship stronger and good bonding in parent children relation.
We all have right to equality, according to law every one has a right to live, let them live don't be their enemies, instead understand them and love them rightly. what one does is their duty and obligations towards their parents.
"Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all".
Childhood was the lesson for us to know how one should treat each other. As the best things or say all things we capture is at that very age where we see our parents taking care of us loving, feeding and never letting us fall apart.
How we treat others is said how ethically one is raised by their parents. Later phase, time changes the journey from childrens to grown ups spontaneously takes places. Our emotions, love, affection, Moods, concern, priorities changes from age to age and through development psychological factors. That very love for parents too changes, our first priority is our ownself then friends and lastly our parents and families.
Geriatics or gerontology meaning ageing, hearing impairments, loss of eye sights and many more reason as such psychological aspects. Parent's who thought at their old age childrens will take care of them and will love them as they did when they were kids but this turns to be only a dream. Old age, weakness, problems due to ageing has become the reason for their childrens to start abuse and violence on their own parent as a burden on them.
Sometimes it's so cruel to hear and see how can a person become emotionless. They decide to throw their parents out of their houses these poor old people find no shelter. Sometimes they take shelter in old age homes and many might have lost their lives seeing their own children treating them badly.
Note: Incase if you feel or go through such thinking. please consult a geriatric counselors who will help you to deal with all types of problems and to recognize your parents problems. which will build your relationship stronger and good bonding in parent children relation.
We all have right to equality, according to law every one has a right to live, let them live don't be their enemies, instead understand them and love them rightly. what one does is their duty and obligations towards their parents.
One of the best line said by philosopher:
--Aristotle.
Its said "Nature is god & it never forgets to repay for r deeds & its the time when u are weak,helpless & in need that very moment u r paid accordingly.And more of it u get the lesson when u are in critical situation of ur life.So think before u do wrong against anyone not only ur parents to anyone as surely u will one day be a part of same situation.All is ur deeds..surely good will be saved & bad will suffer.
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