Friday, 12 June 2020

Is marriage a blessing? Does one face problems in it?

Marriage is a union of two body and soul. It is said that marriages are made in heaven a sacred relation. A journey from unknown to known, strangers to friends and finally from just partners to life partners. A pure bliss and joy, promises to commitment for a life time.

It is said that marriage is a beautiful process of life, a part of transformation in every stage of life. It's a union of two families also. The relation has to be transparent and translucent. Where both partners share every bit of happiness, joy, sorrow, difficulties, tough times from smallest to biggest and deepest to hardest talks without any hesitations.


There should be a mutual understanding between both partners. In context to marriage it has always been given a special importance and a tribute. Many times this relation fails there are lot of stuffs that is imbalanced which affects relation and takes away mental peace from ones life destroying many lives and houses.

All relations have ups and downs, fights and many goes without talking for days without solving the conflicts.Today, the most popular and common problems we see are extra marital affairs or divorvce. It happens due to lack of mutual bonding, lack of communication, trust issues etc.Due to this relation starts becoming weaker.


Sometimes we try to hide some things from our partners, thinking it will ruin the relation and  think it's better to be kept hidden but instead of hiding the talks it turns to destroy trust, loyalty the connection is lost between two and relation starts becoming meaningless.

Once the person starts feeling frustrated, anger the seed of love, care, corncern, trust starts fading away. Sometimes either of the partner is not loyal in marriage and opposite person has to suffer which causes to develop psychological factors.

The challenges of extra- marital affairs lead to spoil the relation. When one partner feel lost, unloved not understandable they start feeling lonely, no peace, not getting love, affection, concern, this tends them to wanting some one to understand them psychologicaly it happens that our mind starts thinking deeper and deeper, emotions changes and we get attracted towards the other person who tries to understand us love us as we want the attachments and connections get stronger with them it's a natural process and happens as explained psychologically.

The relation of husband and wife gets destroyed in a minutes it comes to an end. They start ignoring each other which leave the imprints of psychological disturbancesDepressive features, emotional changes, mood swings.

Our modern society has forgotten the true meaning of marriage. The promises, vows which was taken at the time of marriage remains meaninglessMany goes through divorce, traumas or get seprated mutually.

Sometimes we are so confused that we don't know how do we deal with these situations which we ourselves have created for us.

1) we can talk to some one whom we trust.
2) talk about the things which is disturbing you
3) speak up your problems with your own partners first if not then your friends whom you can trust or any of your family members.
4) consult a marriage counsellor who will guide you  show you the way to deal the problems


Lastly, keep hope in god he is the best care taker of everything you can count on him keep trusting him. Please dont take this relation lightly respect this relation and each other.

Note: There is no intention of attacking anyone personally, intentionally or unintentionally.



 Be strong all situations will pass by.

11 comments:

  1. That's really true. This Morden youth have to understand those things and should think about it.

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  2. All we say soulmate wen we r in a relationship but some of us face pb..no loyal towards relationship... although we have to keep it realistic rather then keeping or spreading fake positivity it will ruin it

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  3. Very true. Nice keep it up

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  4. I feel now a days its all max materialistic,fake,Lifestyle is important,value & attraction for money. Loyalty & Respect towards money not with the person who is having money or earning it.

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