Relation the word itself means two or more people connected to each other in life. One kind of a beautiful thing one can have in a relationship is love, concern, care, trust, loyalty.
Biggest of all relationships needs trust, without trust there is no mutual bonding whether its a relation of "parents, sisters, brothers, friends, husband, wife, bestfriend" or may be any kind of relation you name. It all starts with trust.
As a person when we meet someone who is unknown to us firstly we examine a person and slowly we start trusting a person as we dive deeper in our relation our trust, love, respect grows and nurture all we do is we go with flow.
Sometimes when one of our closest one hurts us we feel bad because we always gave our 100% to that person and what we get in return is something opposite which we never imagined would happen.
Then why do we rely on others? Why do we always expect in return? Have we already started expecting things in return for us? Can we just be selfless? Some unanswered questions we all have in our mind.
Yes it's not that easy to forget as it's always in our memories and emotions are attached to it. We get flashbacks as psychology says so. When someone who is close to us hurt us badly and we don't know what next. These things were unexpected to us which made us think more and more negatively. When that very person goes and say something about you to other person instead of telling you directly the relation is more messed up in this way, because relationship is said to be where we are connected to each other and we need to clarify our own doubts with person whom we think is wrong and not going on telling third person.
Try to keep relations as simple as it can be, don't let anyone ruin your beautiful relation or you might end up nowhere. When you clear your doubts directly. The problem is actually getting solved here.
Instead of keeping harsh feelings and anger, express it out with the right person which can save your relationship for life time.
Better to be clear and effective while speaking whatever is in your mind just speak up instead of taking it to an extreme level.
