What does Christmas signify? Some things to learn from it?

The first Sunday of December is observed as the season of advent where one prepares themselves to welcome Jesus in their lives, heart and home.

Following the weeks of preparation, today it is observed as an auspicious day when Jesus Christ was born, which signifies from darkness to light, joy, peace, love and happiness for all mankind. As Jesus was born in manger thus the manger becomes a reference to the table of God, to which we are invited so as to receive the bread of God. From the poverty of Jesus's birth emerges the miracle in which man's redemption is mysterious.

Jesus was sent to the earth to teach the new commandment to love one another as he loves everyone also to get rid of bad deeds and sins and to overcome it with compassion.

 On  the day of christmas celebration we should make sure that no person is missed in our life, each one has to learn to forgive another. May be some one has hurted you or has done wrong to you which has taken your peace away one has to forgive such people.

christmas is a time of joy, love and sharing happy moments with your loved ones. If you are struggling to connect with the positivity of the season, meet up with your close friends or relatives who can spread the joy with you. Let all the emotions that comes with such an expectation laden time of year may replace with part of positivity.

All we can do is give them somethings with love, may be it's your near and dear ones. Spend your time with the elderly home and child home conveying them the message of arrival of jesus christ.

Exchanging wishes to one another not only this sharing some stories as well experiences to help them live the principles of living a good life as jesus wants.

Lastly, christmas celebration is the perfect time when you can say bye to all your anger, ego, attitudes, grudges and past resentments on people who have hurted your feelings deeply. This is a time to forgive one another and develop love for others. Starting a new relationship all over again the love within the relationship must flow in it's real way. 

Let us spread the pious and benevolent message of Jesus christ.

Wishing you all joyous merry christmas with lots of love!!!

Where can I find peace? What are the ways to deal with problems?

Nowadays we see many people especially youths are dealing with so many psychological problems out of 10 at least 9 are facing the same common problems.

Today we see a so-called modern generation who exactly don't know how to deal and tackle the problems or how to find solutions to any challenges. Life itself is the biggest challenge and it's never easy to deal with. 

Sometimes we are lost in our own world with too many questions arising in our mind. Its whether about our life, work, fights which had been taken place earlier between partners or  two people goes on and on as a cycle. This mind is like a dumping ground whatever you feed will remain there until you clean it.

As rightly said a monkey mind is a disturbed mind and one who has no control on their mind lives an imbalanced life and an unpeaceful life. We just live with hope. Yes, I want to come out of this problem but how? We don't know. 

To find peace in our life we many times choose the wrong way. A way which is a temporary solution to reach peace which lasts for hardly two or three days. May be full day you keep yourself busy but at night you don't get a peaceful sleep.

It's not that we are not doing our best to come out of it but too many problems in our mind lead to negativity which don't allow us to make appropriate decisions. So we lose our power over our mind in decision making.

This not only affects our mind but our physical health too. Our health deteriorates and we lose our control over ourself totally. 

Many psychological disorders arise because of too many things dumped in our mind. Sometimes we need to speak out what we are going through the hard times. It's better to keep on sharing our problems with the trustworthy person who can understand you or you can meet the counselor.

Talk to them they will guide you and show you a way what can be best for you. Counseling not only helps in speaking your mind and heart but it helps to ease your pain.

Yoga and meditation helps to release stress , holding the asana for a longer time can help to alleviate the disorders, giving you peace of mind with calmness and stillness. Doing yoga on a regular basis will help you grow stronger and prepare you to overcome any problems which can give you peace.

Let there be peace and joy in your life!!!!

Is society's mindset changed or still rigid? Are women safe?

If we look back in medieval era womens in both western and eastern countries face the underlying problems. The lives of women is as same as today we find commonality in both.

The struggle, pain, emotionality, insecurity are the factors which affect in a way till now. Womens have their own battles to fight, all day long struggling to live their life. Many have fought for their rights also.

we might have heard many "Feminist and NGO's" who works for womens issues for betterment of society. The mind of some people are the same as 'then till now' most issues such as women's rights also issues of girl child and many more as such are same.

We are living in a 21st century so called modern generation there are no new changes in this society that have the same old rigid thoughts. We still haven't filled the gap between men and women. 

If we analyse the problem of womens in our society we see the situation of women dealing with a lot of personal problems not only social but emotional, physical and mental as well. We get to hear many cases regarding womens in various newspapers and news channels viz physical assaults, rapes, threats, sexual harassment, abuses, mental tortures and still there is no proper solution to stop this crisis.

We always have heard people saying " womens are strong and can face  any challenges come what may!!

Have we looked at this line carefully and ever given a thought for this "that womens are stronger" or sometimes we say "womens are next to goddess"  and so she is really able to face challenges. Is it really so?.

Till date we see inferiority about being a woman even if a woman is highly educated or qualified, working in an organisation, at a good post this is not taken into consideration at a time, because mens are always said to be superior. 

The pain and efforts are hidden behind that happy and smiling face. She chooses to show only her few and selected loved ones. Not always she gets someone who will understand her problems.

Some problems are left unsolved with her. Many incidents taking place in our society a woman is not at all safe in her own house, in this society she is not secured and safe in this very place which is familiar to her. 

Gender equality plays a very important role we should know each lives matters and all are equal as we are born equal. Lets treat each and every person as we want others to respect and treat us.

Let us change our mindset, Its our resposibility to protect womens and childrens from the pain, and various tortures. To give her legal rights and not treating her different from one ownself. Set her free to live her dreams to achieve her dreams do not kill her ambitions and dreams.

Womens too need love, respect and concern!!