Is society's mindset changed or still rigid? Are women safe?

If we look back in medieval era womens in both western and eastern countries face the underlying problems. The lives of women is as same as today we find commonality in both.

The struggle, pain, emotionality, insecurity are the factors which affect in a way till now. Womens have their own battles to fight, all day long struggling to live their life. Many have fought for their rights also.

we might have heard many "Feminist and NGO's" who works for womens issues for betterment of society. The mind of some people are the same as 'then till now' most issues such as women's rights also issues of girl child and many more as such are same.

We are living in a 21st century so called modern generation there are no new changes in this society that have the same old rigid thoughts. We still haven't filled the gap between men and women. 

If we analyse the problem of womens in our society we see the situation of women dealing with a lot of personal problems not only social but emotional, physical and mental as well. We get to hear many cases regarding womens in various newspapers and news channels viz physical assaults, rapes, threats, sexual harassment, abuses, mental tortures and still there is no proper solution to stop this crisis.

We always have heard people saying " womens are strong and can face  any challenges come what may!!

Have we looked at this line carefully and ever given a thought for this "that womens are stronger" or sometimes we say "womens are next to goddess"  and so she is really able to face challenges. Is it really so?.

Till date we see inferiority about being a woman even if a woman is highly educated or qualified, working in an organisation, at a good post this is not taken into consideration at a time, because mens are always said to be superior. 

The pain and efforts are hidden behind that happy and smiling face. She chooses to show only her few and selected loved ones. Not always she gets someone who will understand her problems.

Some problems are left unsolved with her. Many incidents taking place in our society a woman is not at all safe in her own house, in this society she is not secured and safe in this very place which is familiar to her. 

Gender equality plays a very important role we should know each lives matters and all are equal as we are born equal. Lets treat each and every person as we want others to respect and treat us.

Let us change our mindset, Its our resposibility to protect womens and childrens from the pain, and various tortures. To give her legal rights and not treating her different from one ownself. Set her free to live her dreams to achieve her dreams do not kill her ambitions and dreams.

Womens too need love, respect and concern!!

Why is there suffering? Let us know some factors?

 As we all must have seen and  experienced the pain and suffering in our lives on a daily  basis

. We cannot resist our sufferings as it's natural and obvious. 

Suffering is a common factor and is from birth till death

an ongoing process. From childrens to adults everyone faces misery, pain, sorrow but life don't stop there,it keeps on going with the flow. Without suffering we would have never learnt to be strong, reactive and rational. 

Different people have different misery and suffering whether one goes through fear, hardships, sorrow, trouble, pain, anxiety, depression. You accept it or not we all are caged in our own little world as we are bound with more than one suffering.

Sometimes things are not as we want them to be. Our wishes, desires, happiness is not valued by others because someone wants us to be as they wish and slowly we give up on our own happiness and accept others point of view which then leads us to depression leaving an impression on our mind that we are not good enough to take our own decisions. This hurts us more than usual. Secondly, some factors like jealousy, envy, ego, attitudes we face this factor of suffering all this negativity poisons our mind and slowly we lose our pure self. 

Gautama buddha's philosophy states, " life is full of misery". Yes, it's full of misery even though one is in great pain nobody wants to understand the pain which another person is going through. The "ego" factor is somewhere ruling in their lives which leads us to ignore others' problems without concern.

One cannot blindfold the pain or ignore their personal problems as you will land up nowhere rather there will be one more added to it; this cycle of suffering keeps on going till death.

To eradicate this suffering, pain, misery one can follow the path of yoga and spirituality. The moment you get connected towards the higher divinity you can truly feel the pain or burden which you were carrying along for days, months and years will get eased. 

Let's keep ourselves on the path of yoga and spirituality. Follow the ashtanga marga that is yama, niyama, asana, pranayama, pratyahara,dharana,dhyana and samadhi. Practising asanas and meditation can give you more positivity in life and will help to release your sorrow, change your emotions, will keep you stable psychologically away from all disturbances in life and proper clarity to solve your problems, resonate and will make you more realistic and rational.

Stay blessed, stay happy!!!!