Love a beautiful bond a connection between two hearts. It is not always about dating some one. we all love one another whether its a relationship between parents and childrens, husband and wife, girlfriend and boyfriend or it can be friends last but not the least loving higher divinity that is god as he itself is love. We all have our own defination of love i am sure.
We all have heard about love, it's not being physical but it's more about loving each other who values each other presence as some might have experienced it some good things and might have created good memories. others might have gone through this fully opposite. Failure in relationships are the biggest problem one faces in today's time.
Love means not spoiling anyone or ruining lives. Due to this many have lost faith in love, on their own self and some might have given up on this. Love is not only words it's beyond everything one can think and imagine. It is a process of transformation in life, we all love some one or the other. Our parents, god, husband,wife, brother, sister, friends so many beautiful relations, we have many people arround us who love us. Even if we have everything in life there will always be a search for 'true love'. The question is, Does true love exist? Or it's we who have named it? Our eyes are always wandering for that one special person.
We all want someone special to love and treat us in right way. That one who will take care of us and most importantly who will always be by our side. We have given many meanings to love in these context. All we do is create expectations, once we stop getting these attention we feel sad, burdened, heavy hearted and we loose our self control and make our partners life miserable. It's because of our expectations and attachments we loose faith in love and slowly both subsides. We want people to love us as per our thought, imaginations and expectations.
Love has three sides, it's a triangle. If we love some one or may be we are in relation. first thing to know that love should be without expecting anything in return, if you are a giver then give without any attachments or seeking something in return. Secondly, trust your partners or whomsoever you love.Being trustworthy, faithful can make a relationship grow stronger and deeper. if a person can accept your flaws it's more than one can think of in relation. Thirdly, there should be no fear of losing someone if it is meant to happen it will, just believe in God he is the best planner. If we love some one there should be no point of hiding something which can spoil relation, just be loyal speak up your problems, talk about the things which is disturbing you and things that makes you feel guilty.
It's better to clear up things on time rather than keeping it hidden. This feeling of love and being loved is prestigious. Sometimes situations happens to spoil relations it becomes complicated, all we can do is look in to the same for betterment of relation.
Nowadays, many youth's goes through relationship stressor, break up, ups and downs its a natural thing. Its due to misunderstanding between two of them, as we don't want to listen to other person who has wronged us but sometimes things are too complicated and serious and we really dont want some one to be part of us. Feeling of love turns to be hatred and poisonous.
Genuinely, if we ask ourselves are we truly in love with some one, sometimes we are 100% sure and other times we dont even know whether this relation is good for us, as we are not even sure of our own self. what guarantee can we give to be sure of our partner. Still we continue to take our step forward in this.
Sometimes things turns out to be messed and we end up badly, devastated, frustrated dealing with lot of problems. There is a turning point in our life where we get entagled in this type Of mess. Love is beautiful feeling it has to be created doesn't matter who you are what you are it just happens. As it is said "Love is blind". It may be blind but it suggest us to be wise and to take proper decision for our own betterment.
The one who knows you, understand you, takes care of your feelings, who can always be there for you, say worst to good days of your life being supportive is said to love you no matter what come may!!!. Just be loyal, truthful, outgoing personality, supportive. We cannot force anyone to love us or to stay with us in relation. Sometimes it's worth waiting for the right one instead of falling for the wrong one's. Our lives and our future are in our own hands.
Don't let any one take advantage of you, be the best version of you instead of trying to be what some one else wants you to be and behave just be your own. The right ones will be there for you at the right time. Once you get to see all this. I am sure you are in right hands and safe. All we need to know is about the person and his qualities whether he can be there for you. One who can lift you higher, appreciates you for what you are.
Relationship is a blessing, it's a commitment for life time to stay together but we have made a fake trend of dating in relationship in name of love and so it happens to be torn out brutally with the scars left behind which hardly heals. don't spoil anyones life. Learn to love yourself first then only we can love someone. let's spread love instead of harsh feelings. As complicating things can only worsen your life and relation.
We all have heard about love, it's not being physical but it's more about loving each other who values each other presence as some might have experienced it some good things and might have created good memories. others might have gone through this fully opposite. Failure in relationships are the biggest problem one faces in today's time.
We all want someone special to love and treat us in right way. That one who will take care of us and most importantly who will always be by our side. We have given many meanings to love in these context. All we do is create expectations, once we stop getting these attention we feel sad, burdened, heavy hearted and we loose our self control and make our partners life miserable. It's because of our expectations and attachments we loose faith in love and slowly both subsides. We want people to love us as per our thought, imaginations and expectations.
Love has three sides, it's a triangle. If we love some one or may be we are in relation. first thing to know that love should be without expecting anything in return, if you are a giver then give without any attachments or seeking something in return. Secondly, trust your partners or whomsoever you love.Being trustworthy, faithful can make a relationship grow stronger and deeper. if a person can accept your flaws it's more than one can think of in relation. Thirdly, there should be no fear of losing someone if it is meant to happen it will, just believe in God he is the best planner. If we love some one there should be no point of hiding something which can spoil relation, just be loyal speak up your problems, talk about the things which is disturbing you and things that makes you feel guilty.
It's better to clear up things on time rather than keeping it hidden. This feeling of love and being loved is prestigious. Sometimes situations happens to spoil relations it becomes complicated, all we can do is look in to the same for betterment of relation.
Nowadays, many youth's goes through relationship stressor, break up, ups and downs its a natural thing. Its due to misunderstanding between two of them, as we don't want to listen to other person who has wronged us but sometimes things are too complicated and serious and we really dont want some one to be part of us. Feeling of love turns to be hatred and poisonous.
Genuinely, if we ask ourselves are we truly in love with some one, sometimes we are 100% sure and other times we dont even know whether this relation is good for us, as we are not even sure of our own self. what guarantee can we give to be sure of our partner. Still we continue to take our step forward in this.
Sometimes things turns out to be messed and we end up badly, devastated, frustrated dealing with lot of problems. There is a turning point in our life where we get entagled in this type Of mess. Love is beautiful feeling it has to be created doesn't matter who you are what you are it just happens. As it is said "Love is blind". It may be blind but it suggest us to be wise and to take proper decision for our own betterment.
The one who knows you, understand you, takes care of your feelings, who can always be there for you, say worst to good days of your life being supportive is said to love you no matter what come may!!!. Just be loyal, truthful, outgoing personality, supportive. We cannot force anyone to love us or to stay with us in relation. Sometimes it's worth waiting for the right one instead of falling for the wrong one's. Our lives and our future are in our own hands.
Don't let any one take advantage of you, be the best version of you instead of trying to be what some one else wants you to be and behave just be your own. The right ones will be there for you at the right time. Once you get to see all this. I am sure you are in right hands and safe. All we need to know is about the person and his qualities whether he can be there for you. One who can lift you higher, appreciates you for what you are.
Relationship is a blessing, it's a commitment for life time to stay together but we have made a fake trend of dating in relationship in name of love and so it happens to be torn out brutally with the scars left behind which hardly heals. don't spoil anyones life. Learn to love yourself first then only we can love someone. let's spread love instead of harsh feelings. As complicating things can only worsen your life and relation.
Very nicely explained.enjoyed reading keep writing.
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ReplyDeleteGood one as everyone is facing some problems in their relationship everyone needs to learn to respect their partners their loved once all we will get is love ♥️
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