A series of life part 2----by Darshan Bhadra.
As earliest i spoke about how we learn eventually from our smallest to biggest mistakes, how we develop our own negative thoughts.. I would like to continue here more broadly.....
One has to make their own differences not for the sake of others but for their own self, so that we can have restful sleep at night. Minor things in life do matter because from those minor things we can learn up new things and grow from it. Whether it's a bad thing or good. So where do these minor things get caught up?
These minor things are there in our memory. It's fitted as filmed at every moment. Momentarily we always get a past old memory, I am pretty sure it's all of us who must have noticed this as without memory no one can learn what they have been through. Mostly we get memories of our past and hurtful things which create miseries.
On the other hand we get minor memories of childhood like spending quality of time with friends in school/indoors, playground, trips and hanging out with them. It's a bundle of joy one can ever imagine and when this reflects in our memory there is a genuine smile on our face which brightens us. Person will go but the memories stay as imprints, so don't let the good memories fade away.
This can motivate us to get along with our lives hand in hand. As a child we had the freedom to dare to dream as big as we wanted. Then why does it happen that later we grow up and choose our career fearfully, we fear for that same big giant dream. Why it becomes difficult to chase? Why?
Memories don't fear even if one is on the verge of going away from the world. One's last bedtime with sweet memories can ease so much pain leaving the world at peace. I myself think (thinker) Sometimes that why i am here on this earth? What is my role to play? What am i doing with my life? Am i good to make difference in this world?
Many more such typical questions we have and may be all of us might have right? There are so many emotions which arise in my mind when I'm sad or feeling lonely. Not every time we can express ourselves to others because we are scared that they will judge us on our talks as only few can give us love and support and truly care for us.Some do consider and some don't. Lastly, try to create good memories.
Who are those people who really care?
Old Memories talks many things about u where..how..when..ur happiness,ur anger ur likes-dislikes cause-regrets changes in u & as u share brings back those emotions attached to those days where all the past images of incident spent times good or bad just comes before u but the happiest moment u like to share & we just keep r self away from traumatic memories & this all brings a great change in present thoughts & behaviour adding to the level of maturity & real life experience.Now finally what we miss is just r good times not the bad times.
ReplyDeleteGraph of ups and downs we see or I can say we experience...with ur past we grow each day
ReplyDeleteThe answer is within us that are we good enough to make difference out of the other people in this world...
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